Photo Credit: Katie Todd Photography
Why Elope?
Historically, elopement often involved star-crossed lovers who were forbidden to marry, so they ran away to wed elsewhere and love each other freely. Today, eloping has become an increasingly popular option for couples looking for a more intimate and stress-free way to tie the knot. While elopement offers some escape from traditional wedding planning, there are still numerous factors to consider when planning your special day.
Whether you’re seeking adventure, simplicity, or a uniquely personal experience, eloping allows you to celebrate your nuptials on your terms without sacrificing style. These are The Wedding Collective’s 6 tips for how to elope in style.
1. Choosing Your Vibe
Your elopement should reflect your personality and style as a couple. Do you envision a desert ceremony at sunset, a mountaintop vow exchange, or a cozy backyard gathering? What kind of environment do you want to experience before and after the wedding? Decide on an atmosphere and setting that resonates with you both. Your chosen vibe will guide the rest of your planning decisions, from venue to attire to decor and more.
Photo Credit: Grace Perry Productions courtesy of Lost Fork Base Camp
2. Settling on a Budget
Eloping is typically more affordable than a traditional wedding, but it’s still important to set a budget. Determine how much you’re willing to spend on your elopement including travel, accommodations, attire, photography, and any other elements you want to include. Decide if you want to incorporate a honeymoon into your elopement destination. Having a clear budget and priorities will help you make informed choices and avoid overspending.
Photo Credit: Katie Todd Photography
3. Including Guests
One of the benefits of eloping is the ability to keep things small and intimate. However, you may still want to include a few close friends or family members in your special day. Decide if you want any guests to join you and, if so, how many. This decision will influence your venue, travel arrangements, and overall planning.
Photo Credit: Crystal Cousin Photo
4. Finding an Elopement Package
Some hotels and venues offer elopement packages that can simplify the planning process. These packages often include essentials like officiants, photographers, and flowers, tailored to smaller, more intimate ceremonies. There are also wedding planners who have experience coordinating elopements and can lead the planning process. Research and compare different elopement packages and planners to find one that fits your vibe, needs, and budget, ensuring that your elopement is not only memorable but as stress free as possible.
Photo Credit: Katie Todd Photography courtesy of Wild Poppy Events
5. Selecting Vendors
Even for an elopement, having the right vendors can elevate your wedding. Key vendors to consider include a photographer, an officiant, a florist, and perhaps a hair and makeup artist. If you purchase an elopement package from a venue or hire a wedding planner specializing in elopements, they are likely to recommend specific vendors experienced with intimate gatherings. Choosing reliable and talented vendors will help ensure that your elopement is well executed.
Photo Credit: Four Seasons Custom Florals
6. Making It Official
Finally, don’t get so swept away in the romance of an elopement that you forget the legal aspects of getting married. Research the marriage license requirements for your chosen location and ensure you have all necessary documents. Some places may have waiting periods or other specific regulations, so plan ahead to ensure everything is in order. Once you’ve taken care of the legalities, you can focus on enjoying your special day.
Photo Credit: Sunfire Films
Uniquely Yours
Whether you choose a romantic getaway or a heartfelt ceremony close to home, your elopement should be a meaningful celebration of your commitment to one another. Eloping allows you to create a wedding experience that is uniquely yours, free from the pressures and expectations of a traditional wedding. By following these wedding tips, you can elope in style and create a truly unique and meaningful celebration.
